How To Spice Up Your Sex Life?

8 June, 2009 No Comment

When factors such as stress, tension, worry and work overload become dominant, sex tends to take a backseat. A dwindling libido has become a common complaint among many young couples in recent times. Loss of sex drive paves way for depression, anxiety, insecurity and low self esteem. It can open the door to heated arguments and conflict in an otherwise healthy relationship.

The dawn of civilization also made man hunt for new ways to spice up one’s sex life. Great texts such as the Kamasutra and Perfumed Garden were written to highlight the many wonders of lovemaking. Yet, when you get all wound up in everyday chores and have little or no time for sex, you not only put yourself through agony but also rob your partner from experiencing the joys of sexual bliss. Given below are some expert tips that can enable you to spice up your sex life and succumb to that primal urge in today’s fast paced life.

Get in the mood: Now we understand that you are extremely busy and barely have time to relax and the very of thought of making love to your partner seems to be agonizing. You can always try mingling pleasure with relaxation and ask your partner for a sensual body massage…with all the clothes off, of course!

Make sure that your room has dim lighting and you can even add perfumed candles, aroma oils in diffusers and flower petals to add to the effect. Try something tantalizing as a chocolate based massage cream that can work wonders for your libido or simply go in for baby oil. Who knows…all the enhanced circulation might actually get you romping between the sheets?

Make room for sex: Taking your laptop to bed is the worst idea if you are looking to sustain your sex life. Throw the television, computer, mobile and every other gadget out of your bedroom. Keep it exclusively for relaxing and sleeping and making love. A cluttered bed and constant reminders of work certainly turn off the libido and send your sex live whizzing out of the door.

Talk Sex: Many studies reveal that talking about sexy things with your partner and fantasizing about sex can actually turn you on. When in bed or otherwise, try getting kinky and add words to your craziest sex thoughts and love-making fancies. Reveal all your secret sexual desires to your partner and who knows…they might actually come true?

Aromatherapy: As per research certain essential oils and fragrances tend to uplift the libido. These include jasmine, rose, lavender and ylang ylang. You can use these oils in diffusers, candles or relaxing baths and let their tantalizing aroma uplift your senses and enhance your libido.