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Finding a Perfect Partner

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April 27, 2009

Everyone in this world wants to experience the beautiful world of love. A little bit of love in our life can bring us plenty of joy. But what is love? There are many definitions that tend to explain this word. However, many of us have had their share of ups and downs in love. Some of us may have felt neglected by our parents, friends and even siblings and when we do not receive any love from them, we tend to divert towards hate and anger because we have the right to be loved. But the reality is not what it seems. In this world, we often do not receive the kind of love that we are looking for. So where do we find it?

The secret of finding love is to love someone in the beginning, irrespective of whether you have got hurt in the past for doing the same or not. The reason of doing this is to avoid falling prey to three emotions: sadness, anger and fear. The reason for mentioning fear is because if you don’t reach out, then you would feel scared to love someone. It is a fact that we need someone to love as life gets harder without it.

Usually the hardest part is the fear of rejection. This is when you express your feeling to a person, but all you get in return is rejection and this makes you feel that there is something missing in you. However, this should not stop you as it would only obstruct your progress in life. It is often seen that what we want is something we never get but this doesn’t mean that we should ever give up. No matter how much we try, it is a fact that no one can get along or be happy without love.


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