Four Reasons Overpowering Individual Mind from Being Punctual
February 27, 2009
Being late is a very common symptom among both children and adults. It is an alarming issue for an individual, a family and a society also. We should work on this with sincere effort to get rid this unpunctuality we are discussing. Many reasons have been observed as causes of unpunctuality. Some reasons are really surprising and have roots deep in one’s sub-consciousness. A person with tardiness can be set on the time track with proper findings and correct practice.
Some people who fall in this category have been observed to behave childishly in case of managing time. The inner child rather than the inner adult within the adult person controls situations; and as a child has no perfect sense of time for a particular work, the person fails to do any work in time. As we see, children are playful in attitude and can’t ideate about the time required for a task. Also, a child who had a rebellious attitude towards not being controlled by suggestions grows up as an adult being the same. The sub-conscious thoughts to deviate from others’ suggestions refrains the person from being punctual.
It is more likely to fail to follow time when a person is angry with either parent or someone very close for a long time. The anger iconizes the other person and the rebel gets shifted to the person presently in concern. But, if he or she can be made understood directly that no expectation is there from the other side then the rebellion will surely reduce and eventually vanish. If the cause is withdrawn, the effect will no longer be in action. Such symptoms are merely psychological and should be treated likewise.
Another interesting finding explores the fact about the effect of one’s ego and intention of controlling others rather than simple caring on time management. A clandestine sense of gratification works in the mind of these people in keeping others waiting. This way they satisfy their ego and controlling sense and set own time.
The last but not the least reason is more psychological but less harmful. In this case, a person creates an anxiety within self for doing works in time to cover another anxiety which is more painful and restless and has no solution within his or her reach. This eventually makes the person doing anything lately.
The most important thing is the willingness to being punctual and self-awareness of the reason for being late and then the cause needs to be rooted out. Love and compassion within and toward the self can surely challenge the evil and weakness in mind.
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