Handling A Break Up
October 13, 2008
A lot of resemblance is found between Yankees and Expectations of Relationships. A relationship enjoys a nice regular season, attendance record is broken and most of the times enjoy an easy ride to the next season. But just like the current Yankees, if one or two things take a different turn while on the ride to the crucial level in the road, the next level and in this case, the relationship itself could come to an end.
It is hardly found that women are friendly with their ex-flames. So instead of finding a solution to bring things back on track, the opposite route is always chosen, i.e., just to break off things and start searching for a replacement! But just after a few weeks or months we realize that this will not exist as the long-term solution and then we accept and appreciate our first love. Even if some of the old relationships are not completely accepted by our minds, but, going back to the same relations is a far better option than remaining alone.
You should ask yourself this question before you get back to your ex, do you sincerely miss her presence?
Is it for the intense conversation and friendship that existed between you for which you want her back ? or is it just for that fancy wedding date, or to fulfill your sexual requirements, or for the fulfillment of your pleasure or just the sex ?
Often, none of the aforesaid answers provide a solution. The answer, in many cases, is none of the above. In its place, the backdated “jealousy” tempts us to drop our honor and our attempts to win her back. Quite often we come across this paradox of low self-respect and shocking ego that makes us restrict the legal behavior of our exes (holding hands in a public place or making out with another person at a bar).
Your illogical efforts in controlling his moves often result in making you a fool ( like sending text messages, email or voicemail). These initiatives spoil any possibility of bringing him back to you. In reality, those irrational attempts at control (angry voicemail, email, text messages, etc.) can make you look foolish. These reflect how much you care about him but in the end, it speaks volumes of you being over jealous without the knife.
Unique Breast Cosmetics from St.Botanica
Comments
Got something to say? Join the conversation and leave a comment below.
and oh, if you want a pic to show with your comment, go get a gravatar!