Why Men Would Not Propose As Per Your Wishes
February 19, 2009
I know ladies, that it is a time of agony when wedding season is on and most of your friends get married and you are still left pondering when your guy will pop the question. Men don’t understand these situations. They don’t really get how anxious we can get to be married when we see our peers walking down the aisle to a happy beginning.
Men are not aware of our anxiety because they don’t really hear our biological clock ticking as we do. Men are fertile way into their old age but with us, the scenario is different. Giving birth to a healthy baby at middle age is not totally sure thing and so most women want to get married before it is too late. Men do not feel this pressure and so they don’t feel they should hurry up and propose.
Men feel that all women dream of a big wedding where they can be the princess and there’ll be hundreds of people to join in the festivities. While this is true for most women, not all are of this opinion. While women would love to engage themselves in the flower arrangements and the arrangements in general, men detest it and are in dread of it. So, often they avoid proposing to avoid this whole episode of a hectic arrangement schedule and the wedding in general. Let him know that you aren’t one of those girls and you look forward to your honeymoon more than the wedding.
Men like to have a planned future before proposing, so they never propose unless they are sure about the next step. If they haven’t had their finances or future plans sorted out, they won’t be proposing any time soon. So take it easy and plan it out.
Men are in mortal fear of proposals as they feel they have to live up to the hype and the gestures that men prior to him have shown. So let your man know that you don’t mind a sweet and simple gesture.
If all this is sorted and you still haven’t got the ring, try proposing yourself.
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